The Girlfriend That Every Man Wants

Posted by Unknown at 10:22 AM
Advice by: Serena Powell
Place: Bradford, UK

A popular New York based relationship magazine recently published an editorial on what makes a certain category of girlfriends more desirable to their men. A topic well studied, researched and surveyed by noted columnist Dr. Mark Montero, he brings out simplistic details that most girls and women can follow. As a woman, I can vouch for his guidance on being the girlfriend that every man wants.

Gorgeous looks and stylish appearances do make a girlfriend more desirable. But a man will grow out of that obsession soon enough. As a boyfriend, he needs his partner to have certain traits that would make her more adorable and command respect for herself.

1. A Girl with an Identity that is anything but, “His Girlfriend”
Men hold high regards and respect for a woman who can stay independent, work for herself and have a company of her own. He will think twice or even thrice before he can let such a gem of a person go away for it makes him the loser in the end. It makes his life easy too because he doesn’t have to attend to someone constantly.

2. A Girlfriend with a Friendly & Social Nature
It’s a treat for a guy when his girlfriend gets along with his family and friends. He has such comfort of mind when she fits into his social groups and when his folks truly enjoy her company. In return of making his folks happy, he values his girlfriend more and reciprocates with more love.

3. A Mate with A High Sex Drive
A girlfriend who initiates sex herself makes her more desirable to her man. Whether she offers to please him wildly or sweetly, he wishes to return the favor back in more than one way. A girlfriend with a high sex drive makes her man feel that his adventure with her is never boring and he dreams to explore more and more adventures with her.

4. A Girl who takes care of her Appearance & Fitness
A man would love to flaunt the woman he is with when he moves out with her. Taking care of your appearance, carrying yourself well in public and keeping fit keeps your man interested in you forever. It reassures him that if you can take care of yourself, you can take care of his family. Everything apart, staying beautiful makes you more confident and takes you into a high life condition. That itself heightens your ability to keep your man happy!

5. A Partner who is Smart
Being dumb is cute at times, but doesn’t take you too far. A girlfriend who can express her opinions and have stimulating conversations gives the relationship an echo; else it’s always the guy trying too hard. If you use your wit to surprise him on occasions, he’ll love you for that. Moreover, if your guy feels that he can discuss life and issues with his girl, he subconsciously considers you to be his closest buddy!

6. A Girlfriend who “Shows” she Cares for him
Men want you to “show” that you care for them. That doesn’t mean you need to stand by him only when he has had a catastrophe in his life. Basically, your gestures that surprise him with things of his choice and the ones that make his life easy are the ones which actively show that you care. Note these little things in your boyfriend’s life and do them for him.

7. A Girl who stops being a Typical Girlfriend
A typical girlfriend is constantly insecure, keeps nagging him when he is out, keeps cribbing about little issues and always gets late dressing up. Such pressure makes all men develop a serious distaste for such a woman. For a change, keep off your insecurities and check out women with him for fun. Let him have his boys’ night out. Get ready before him at times when you go out. Most of all stop cribbing and whining in daily life if you do! Trust me, he’ll fall in love with you over and over again!

8. A Girlfriend who understands her Boyfriend is a Man
Every girlfriend must realize that men and women are different. You can’t take a man out to for a day long shopping spree or expect him to understand that some color is mauve. On the other hand, you can’t expect him to cuddle with you at home when all his friends are watching the World Cup Finals! At times, he may crack stupid jokes, but as a man he’d feel proud if you shared a laugh. And in times of uncertainty, allow him to take the decision and respect it. A girlfriend who lets her boyfriend be a man can herself demand to be woman when she wants to!

If you are already in a relationship, you will start seeing within a couple of weeks how your boyfriend/husband starts responding more lovingly towards you. If you are dating someone, he’ll dream of growing old with you. My bet is he’ll share with his buddies how amazing you are and that will make you the girlfriend that every man wants!


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Types of Kisses

Posted by Unknown at 12:38 PM
Advice by: Cristina
Place: Launceston, Australia

There are various types of kisses that have come down till date through years of civilization and cultures. Relevant to this article are the different types of kisses that a couple shares as a part of their romance. These include...

-- A Smooch

-- A Lip Lock

-- A French Kiss

If you have not read, how to kiss before this, then you are recommended to read that first. It will teach you how you should lead yourself into a kiss, tell you about the signs to look for before kissing and give you a quick check-list that will indicate if a kiss is imminent with your partner.


Here further it is explained how you would smooch, lock lips and french kiss…

How to Smooch
This is a type of kiss where your mouth remains closed when your lips meet.

Step 1
Pucker your lips as you get closer and gently touch your lips to your partner’s lips.

Step 2
Hold it for not more than 2 seconds and pull back slowly.

Step 3
Smile for a split second and lean in again to kiss.

Step 4
You can repeat the process 2-3 more times after the first kiss.


How to do a Lip Lock
This is a type of kiss where you open your mouth slightly and part your lips only enough to cover your partner’s lips. Don’t open your mouth as if you are going to eat something.

Step 1
As you come closer, close your eyes.

Step 2
When you are close enough to feel each other’s breath, seal your partner’s lower lip with your lips and press softly. Use only your lips. Do not spoil the lip lock by getting your teeth into action however tempted you are.

Step 3
After about 8-10 seconds, slowly retract, open your eyes and gaze away if the sentiment at that moment is to stop.

Step 4
If however, you both feel you wish to kiss again, lean in one more time and this time give your partner the chance to seal your lips.

Step 5
Keep it slow and soak yourself in the passion of the moment.


After you have kissed, you may cuddle up together or hold hands. Gaze into each other’s eyes and keep the moment charged up engaging in some sort of physical contact. This will turn out to be one of the most romantic moments you share with your partner if you do it well. It will almost be like you are taken into a different world… a feeling that will stay with you for years to come!

Among the various types of kisses, the smooch and the lip lock are the ones that require lesser involvement as compared to a French kiss. However, they still are relatively more difficult because of the control that you need to have and the restraint you need to show in the ignited moment of passion.

A French kiss is rather liberal and is almost a foreplay to physical intimacy. Anyhow, here you can read about How to French Kiss your partner.

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Body Language to Attract Women

Posted by Unknown at 5:55 AM
Advice by: Demario
Place: Long Beach, Washington, USA

This article is for men who want to have a positive effect with their personality on women around. It gives an insight into how Body Language creates this effect.

Researchers at University of Michigan indicated that about 66% to 92% of human communication occurs non-verbally. It is your body language that perfectly mirrors your internal state of mind. Body language can tell what's an individual's mental state -whether he lost someone or whether he got promoted at work.

So, as a man if you want to attract women, seduce them, pick them up or even casually just flirt with them, you have to be careful what you're communicating non-verbally.

Women's minds are trained to subconsciously understand when men are trying to hit on them. What researchers have found out is that most men do the following when they wish to show interest in a woman:
1. Make eye contact and stare for too long
2. Smile as if they can sweep the woman off her feet
3. Nod at her as if to speak through expressions
4. Move within her range trying to get her attention desperately

Most men unknowingly do all this and in the end wonder why she didn't respond back. A woman's subconscious mind reads such a man's desperation. The right body language speaks the right words and even invites her subconscious mind without herself realizing that she is getting attracted.

Body language consists of the following:
1. Your Movements
You need to show that you are so fabulously successful that there's hardly any reason for you to rush into impress anyone. You need to move around in the space believing that its yours and that others will follow you.

2. The Displacement of Your Body
Spread your arms and legs as if you own the space. Don't be afraid to take up space.

3. Your voice
Be calm, soothing yet commanding. Don't speak too fast, too loudly or strain your voice.

4. Your face
Relax your facial muscles. Don't keep touching or rubbing your face. Just relax your jaw and once in a while you could show a little expression by raising your brow. But don't frown in your expression, try something more like a surprised smile whilst you read a book or you get a call.

5. Your shoulders
Relax your shoulders as if you got out of a massage. Don't raise them up like nervously.

All these are just basic rules to start with. At least you will see women responding better to you than before with these tips. Really speaking, it goes much beyond that. Probably as far as to say that body language at times is more important than what you speak. If your body language doesn't match your speech, more than often you will only fail out there.

Alpha males do this without much effort because they've naturally grown up that way. It doesn't mean that if you don't naturally have it, then you won't get anything. Every guy out there has the ability; as similar as anyone out there can learn how to drive a car.

If you tell a woman about your life stories that exemplify confidence, but at the same time if you your arms and slump over, she will be able to make out you are fake.

As part of the research, quite a few of these alpha males were observed. Here is an instance of one of these men sitting in a coffee shop:
He was at a coffee shop in his neighbourhood lounging on the couch, with his arms spread out and feet up on the table. He seemed so comfortable as if he was in the comfort of his own house lounging on his own couch. It was almost as if he owned the place.

A girl sitting near him put down her book and started making small talk with him.

The conversation went on for awhile, they exchanged numbers and the next day the same couple was seen passionately kissing each other goodbye at the same coffee place after their date.

Women would never risk making conversation with stranger men unless they feel some attraction. Whenever an attractive girl actually does that, you have to believe and assume from within that she is attracted to you. When there is no previous conversation, the only thing that makes her approach you and speak to you is your body language.

As I said earlier, beyond your body language it is extremely essential that you have a consistent internal alpha male mindset too. As your body language conveys that confidence, your mood and speech automatically shift in that direction.

Your mindset should be in a woman's personal space and interested in her. Don't make the same mistakes of seeming too desperate. Comfort yourself and enjoy your time. Build on that strongly and you'll see how your equation starts to change with women.


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Right Time to Kiss A Girl / Guy

Posted by Unknown at 12:34 PM
Advice by: Cristina
Place: Launceston, Australia

How do you know when is the right time to kiss?
You have to be smart to read cues and act promptly when the right time to kiss arrives. Period! If you act stupid and make a move at the wrong moment, it can bring you embarrassment or even shatter your confidence for the next time.

A Quick Check Firstly ...
Make sure there is either a romantic interest or physical attraction between you both… unless you are completely drunk at a party or a club! If neither is true, its wise to wait till something sparks off between you two.

However, if you do fall into either of the above categories, here are a few indicators that will tell you when is the right time to kiss …


Signs before Your First Kiss
1. Before the day of kissing arrives, you must have hugged each other, brushed your bodies closely or at least held hands sometime in the past. If you haven’t made any physical contact ever, it really isn't recommended to proceed further into kissing him/her.

2. Just before the kissing moment, you both will tend to make physical contact and come unusually close to each other. Mostly couples may graze each others' arms, hold hands or touch one another on the back, leg or arm.

3. You will both keep looking intently at each others' eyes and faces than shying away at your surroundings.

4. At times there may be a sudden lull in the conversation and your eyes will meet your partner’s for just a bit longer than you both normally do. Though your conversation might stop suddenly, there won't be any feeling of awkwardness. Rather you will feel a sense of attraction.

5. You both will have a great time and you will either laugh a lot or probably smile a lot at each other.

6. Gradually the biggest give away is when you see your partner biting and wetting their lips and looking at your lips intermittently.

7. Eventually both your heads will tilt. You will look at each other with a tension running through your mind and body. And finally you will bring your faces closer to melt into a kiss.

So, when is the right time to kiss?
Well, every couple feels it naturally when the right moment arrives! You too will know from within when it is the right time to kiss. It is just that these signs will reinforce your thoughts if at any time you doubt the moment or you act too weak to make a move!



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How to Get Over an Ex Boyfriend

Posted by Unknown at 1:57 PM
Suggestion by: Jessica Highton
Place: New York City, USA

I know exactly what runs through your mind when you've broken up! I've been in the same state as you are currently in and I had done a Google search "How to Get Over an Ex Boyfriend" to reach BlogJeez! Its been over 3 months now and I am perfectly all right and completely over my ex. It required an immense amount of struggle, discipline and will for me to come out of it.

The real turning point in me getting over my ex boyfriend was when I read Azzan's article on BlogJeez about How to Get Over a Break Up. It surely is an expert article and somehow his methods, though slightly unusual, they seem to work! If you are looking at a long-term serious approach on getting over your ex boyfriend, then go ahead and follow Azzan's methods.

If you just want to make yourself feel good for the time being, I just want you to listen to this fun song below. It used to help me lighten up my mood and get over my ex boyfriend whenever I felt low.



Everyone might probably be giving you all the expert advice and counseling on how to get over it and forget about your ex-boyfriend. Instead of taking things so seriously, here's a fun guide to flirting called the Fastest Guide to Flirting that you should probably try out than sit in one corner, weep and curse your fate! So, get up girl and get going! Feel free to share your thoughts below if you would like to speak up about your break up or about your ex boyfriend. We would love to hear from you!

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Desirable Traits in Women

Posted by Unknown at 1:26 PM
Advice by: Serena Powell
Place: Bradford, UK

The most reasonable approach in attracting men and keeping them glued to you is simply one thing: Knowing what are the desirable traits in women which men want. It can all start with a flash of some attraction and some passion, but beyond that there are some secrets that make a woman desirable.

1. A Woman's Smile & Warmth
Whenever a man visualizes a woman that he is attracted to, it is her smile that he pictures in his mind. A sweet friendly smile conveys to him that you are pleasant and you can offer warmth in the relationship. His perception of his girl begins from here, so it is essential that you smile pleasantly in his presence.

2. A Woman's Sense of Humor
Men desire to be with a woman who can laugh with them because humor can work wonders. Fundamentally, it keeps couples happy; it turns awkward situations into relaxed ones and mellows down heated arguments. What more, it even serves as a turn on for men to see their girl giggle. What’s important as a girlfriend/wife is not the ability to crack jokes every moment, but being able to understand humor and laugh openly.

3. A Woman's Feminine Nature
A feminine woman is someone who displays a caring a nature and a kind heart. Delicate, gentle and soft women come across to a man’s primal mind as a mate who can take care and nurture his offspring. Being aggressive is “not sexy” the way movies portray it. Else, if men found aggression sexy, they would probably be hitting on other men.

4. A Woman's Healthy Physical State
You don’t necessary need to be a supermodel, though it would be great if you are one. The male mind is trained to get attracted to a woman shorter than him and whose body structure is relatively smaller than his own. Being too thin indicates malnourishment and being overweight pertains to lack of fitness. Both these can completely turn him off. As a woman you should try to maintain a healthy physical state because it indirectly also implies a good mental state.

5. A Woman's Down to Earth Nature
Men have a growing dislike for women who argue repeatedly and have an inflated ego. By evolution, man is supposed to be the stronger sex of our species and when you tend to overturn this fact, "naturally" things go wrong. You are entitled to have an opinion and have it respected in your relationship. However, you should let him take the lead as much as possible. Guys also dislike females who are extremely materialistic because they see them as high-maintenance and mentally attribute such women as unreachable for them. Mind your limits especially when you are making first impressions.

6. A Woman's Appearance
It is extremely essential that you portray yourself as confident, elegant and stylish. The way a woman carries herself, the way she walks and the way she exhibits her mannerisms decides how men respect her. You should dress up in only those clothes which accentuate the best parts of your body. Also basic hygiene with your teeth, nails and hair should be taken care of regularly.

7. A Woman's Trust Value
A man can feel truly close to his woman when he knows he can share his emotions with her and connect on a more personal level. Trust grows alongside the relationship bond when you give him a chance to open up and speak about his feelings and views. Being responsive and supportive to his ups and downs can take you two a long way. Remember that a man shares something with you because he "trusts" you. It would blow him off if he realized you leaked his secrets to your friends.

8. A Woman's Fidelity
Nobody wants an infidel partner obviously. But, fidelity can’t be shown directly to someone you are attracted to. Subtle little actions can seed within him the feeling that you won’t cheat on him. When on a date with him, make sure your attention doesn’t move to another guy around you. Telling him things like how he is the best guy you could have because he did something for you make him feel you value him.

9. A Woman's Sexual Ability
Firstly, be open to the fact that women want sex as much as men do. Great sex can imply a fun-loving, lively and adventurous partner. But how do you prove that to him unless you have started out with a one night stand! Well, subtly touching his body, calling him by his name repeatedly in a seductive tone, winking at him when you two laugh at a joke and letting him hold you by your waist whenever the opportunity arises can all imply your playful nature in bed.

Don’t try to ace every single desirable trait in women that men want. However, try to be honest and rate yourself in each of these characteristics. Then just consciously improve where you lack. But remember, the key is:
"A woman with a balanced combination of these traits can have guys fall for her over and over again."


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What Men Want in A Relationship

Posted by Unknown at 11:55 AM
Advice by: Serena Powell
Place: Bradford, UK

Understanding what men want in a relationship is rather easy but its just unawareness that leaves women in vain. This article is for all those ladies out there who think they know everything about men. Actually most of us have a twisted version of what men really are.

Smart women who have a successful relationship know what other women don’t. Here are those secrets and facts that go out to all my girl friends out there who wish to come across as charming and adorable to guys and have successful lasting relationships.


1. Signals & Invitation
Most men need signals from a woman when they are both mutually attracted to each other. Majority of the guys find it hard to understand if the girl is interested and avoid making a move thinking of a possible embarrassment. A short stare for five seconds clearly tells him you are interested and a “friendly smile” sends a signal you aren’t just looking for sex.

2. The Sensitive Side
Evolution has not given men a chance to handle emotional situations the way women can. Men are more sensitive than what we think. This makes men more introvert because they get overwhelmed when they pour their heart out. Helping a man open this chamber of his heart will show that you care for him.

3. Dominance & Ego
Men don’t appreciate a woman being dominant and having an inflated ego. It is perfectly all right to have your opinion. It is only fair that your man respects your point of view. But dominating over him makes him feel he is at battle with you and he reciprocates heartlessly.

4. Possessive Nature
Feminine nature makes us possessive about our men. Some of us make the mistake of pushing this feeling overboard. What it does eventually is that it literally makes your guy feel claustrophobic without any space to breathe. Anyone stuck like that would just want to break free then. All you need to do is just subtly convey that you are not willing to share him with anyone.

5. Feeling Important
Guys love feeling important right from childhood. Making him feel that he is special encourages him to love you better. Don’t let any opportunity go waste when even his smallest of actions are worthy of being appreciated.

6. The Past Fling
Every man and woman has had a past relationship or a fling. It is completely unnecessary and uncalled for to bring up something from the past when you quarrel or argue. It makes your man feel you don’t trust his fidelity. If you have feelings of insecurity, then deal with your insecurity separately without bringing up his history.

7. The Insecure Man
Feelings of insecurity cross a man’s mind too. As much as you want to talk about some bloke on whom you have a crush at work/school or about past relationships, zip the lip. He might not react directly to it, but it builds within him feelings of negativity.

8. Abuse
All men can get verbally and physically abusive or rash. It’s a bitter fact but true. Once in a while a man’s outburst can take that form which is a part of his primal instincts. As women, we scream, we cry, we get b*tchy and we do things that tick men off. The only thing you need to take care of is that his rough behaviour is only an instinct and not his habit.

9. Taken for Granted
Men love doing things for their woman. When your man does something for you, appreciate it and show a sense of gratitude to reciprocate in the least way. When you have been wrong, don’t wait to apologize to him. These little things make him feel that you are not taking him for granted.

10. Individual Identity
A man needs an identity of his own at work and during leisure. Encourage and talk to him about his work. Distribute equally the activities that he likes and you like when you are together. Respecting his work and being part of things he likes doing makes him feel his identity and activities are worthy. This makes him more confident and proud of himself.

To be a loving couple, every girl out there needs to truly understand what men want in a relationship! So, don’t be selfish and spread these secrets to our fellow sisters and girls. It’s for a good cause after all, you see. A satisfied man in a relationship is more than half the battle won, the remaining battle is satisfying yourself!


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Playa Boyfriend Pays for All

Posted by Unknown at 11:09 AM
Secret by: Olivia
Place: Raleigh, North Carolina, USA

I believed that I was falling for Mac though we weren't together for long. Right from the beginning I knew he was a player, but nothing helped me get over my feelings for him.

Within 3 days of breaking up with Mac, he had a new girlfriend for a day. After 2 weeks, he had another one too. Worse was that I was pregnant by him, which I realized after dumping him. Even worse was that I couldn't stop thinking it was the wrong decision.

I needed to get over him! Mac as usual didn't seem to care. I was sure he will go the same route with another girl, then another one and then another one. I was angered, humiliated and was boiling from within. I didn't want any more girls going through it or crying over him.

I needed to finally get a grip, move on, but give Mac the s*it that he gave us all. I spent hours wondering how I would do that. What struck me was probably the most evil thing I have ever done. Here is what happened to Mac:

Mac had been trying to get Cathy, the hottest blonde in his Spanish class. He had been trying to woo her, but no luck, which was the ultimate ego hurt for Mac. Mac never had a girl say "no" to him. Cathy finally agreed to go out for dinner with Mac and she chose Vivace. I am sure Mac wanted a to score on her post dinner. After all he was in for a really expensive date!

Well, the scene was set. The evening came and Mac & Cathy were at Vivace ordering food and wine. That's when Jen & I arrived. Jen was overjoyed seeing Mac and hugged him with a kiss. Our blondie Ms Cathy was stunned and Mac was speechless. He could barely speak to introduce us. Jen said hi to both of them and introduced herself and me as Mac's ex-girlfriends. Mac O Mac, what was he in for he must have thought through those moments. Mac tried being gentle and offered us to join them. We giggled but with no shame accepted his offer. He could see Cathy getting so mad and his evening getting ruined.

Another couple of minutes as we scanned through the wine menu, Emma came in. I guess that was the biggest bomb that fell on Mac. Less than 5 days back he had just dumped Emma and now here he was with 3 hotties at Vivace. Emma sat beside me and we stared right in Mac's face. Emma, Jen & I were out for a girl's night. Emma was dressed to kill that night. She could make any guy go weak in his knees that night at the restaurant.

The plan was working. Never had I seen the studly Mac finding hard to gather words to speak. I am sure by now he had guessed we were playing on him. He was so dazed that he couldn't get any sort of control over the situation. We ordered wine, cured meats, risotto, caesar and tuna... I guess that was the list. Then we ordered more wine and still some more till we were giggling and swaying.

Drunk Emma lashed out at Mac and fought over their break up. She yelled at how he had been a player and disposed off girls like tissues as the whole restaurant looked in our direction. Mac was embarrassed to the core struggling to explain whilst we all laughed. Cathy's facial expressions shouted out loud how ignited she was waiting to kick Mac between his legs.

Then I excused myself to go the Ladies Room. Emma & Jen followed me. We finally left Mac & Cathy to have a moment. Jen hadn't even opened the door before Emma burst out with a deafening laugh. I am sure the whole crowd behind must have heard her! Here's the twist - Cathy followed inside and gave me a hi5! Woohoo!

We had all loved Mac but hated him even more. That evening Mac's self-confidence had gone down the drain and was lost in some gutters. We walked off from Vivace leaving the guy waiting for 4 pretty women! Not one came back for him! We walked the streets laughing and commenting on the poor soul! We had within us a sense of victory, girl power and ultimate satisfaction for having pulled off this prank on him... Each of us girls has a story to tell our grandkids now!

Mac had figured it. This was Mac's most expensive date and will always be for the rest of his life. The most memorable too, after all he had 4 hotties, but still not even one! The last semester passed and no one heard Mac going out with a girl all those months... Till today I get such a kick from having smashed Mac's ego, his self-confidence and embarrassing him in front of the entire restaurant.

"Thanks for the dinner & wine Mac!"

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How to Flirt (Video!)

Posted by Unknown at 8:41 AM
Here is a great little video if you are impatient to read the whole guide on How to Flirt. It gives you a few tips on flirting that you can use when you come across someone you find attractive and wish to flirt with.

Flirting is nothing but a developed social skill. It is a misconception that just a handful of people are born with this talent. Yes, there are some people who are bold enough to try flirting in their early teens and with initial success they climb up the ladder rather quickly. This implies that it is cumulative confidence that pushes them high up there. If you start experimenting your flirting skills and practice just a little bit, you can be in that league, without exaggeration!

However, if you really are interested in polishing your flirting skills and making a clean sweep each time you flirt, it is recommended that you do the read the entire guide -- The Fastest Guide to Flirting by Melinda Cox. This guide gives you all the best tips on flirting, the signs to look out for from the opposite sex, certain warnings to keep in mind while flirting and a whole range of other related topics to gear you up for the kill.

For now that you have reached this page, enjoy the video... (If the video is not showing in your Internet Explorer Browser, please use Mozilla Firefox or Google Chrome and upgrade your flash player)



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If you would like to know more on the art of flirting, here are few recommendations for you:

The Fastest Guide to Flirting -- A Compilation of the Best Tips, Signs & Warnings on Flirting

RECOMMENDED FOR WOMEN

1. The Girlfriend That Every Man Wants

2. 9 Most Desirable Traits In A Woman

3. What Men Find Attractive In A Woman's Body

4. 10 Things Every Man Wants in a Relationship


RECOMMENDED FOR MEN

1. What Women Want in A Man's Looks

2. Attract Women With Your Body Language

3. How to Talk to Any Girl Anywhere

4. Make Any Girl Fall in Love with You
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Flirting Warnings

Posted by Unknown at 12:53 PM
E-Guide by: Melinda Cox
Place: Miami, USA

What NOT to do while flirting?
Certain things need to be avoided while flirting just to make you a better flirt or to help you from falling into an undesirable circumstance. Before you start flirting, remember that you are just out there to have fun. It may or may not go as expected, nor does it carry any guarantee what it will lead to in future.


# 1 Flirting Warning
Take it with a pinch of salt
When you flirt with somebody, don’t take it too seriously! You are just being playful in the social setting. There may be a possible rejection, but don’t let that discourage you. Just move on and hop onto another person who will respond positively. This will heighten your chances of getting a flirting mate faster than wasting time over non-responsive

# 2 Flirting Warning
Prevent yourself from obvious chances of getting embarrassed
As described earlier, there are always certain places which are most conducive to flirting. Try to stick to mostly those places, unless some other exceptions that you deem fit for flirting. Choosing inappropriate social settings will bring you embarrassment and tarnish your social image too. Furthermore, avoid stalking anybody who is uninterested in flirting with you. Respect their choice and hop onto someone else.

# 3 Flirting Warning
Don’t be insulting or too outspoken
Never insult anyone or be arrogant to someone you are flirting with. You may choose to use humor that is acceptable to the person you are flirting with, but being cocky is a complete no-no! Also avoid being too outspoken about anything that’s on your mind. Unless you have developed some level of comfort after meeting the person a few times, choose your words correctly. For example, don’t start giving them tips on dressing or making comments about their friends or anything that might be personal.

# 4 Flirting Warning
Don’t talk about your past relationships
You are flirting with someone because you fancy them. It is utterly useless and disgusting to talk about your past love life because it is just not meant for that moment of flirting.

# 5 Flirting Warning
Avoid complaining or whining
Complaining won’t do you any damage as such, but it will just bore the person than excite them. You aren’t husband and wife to talk of daily woes. So let the firecrackers burst till (and if) you get married!

# 6 Flirting Warning
Leave when the excitement starts dying down
It is best to leave from the flirting floor as soon as you realize the moment is losing its charm. This way the person will remember that it was a ball of a time they had with you and have no memory of a boring instance. Plus, the one who moves out first is always the more desired one between the two.

# 7 Flirting Warning
Avoid uncomfortable sexual connotations
Cracking dirty jokes or talking about sexual stuff may not be desirable to someone unless they have reached a certain level of comfort with you. Avoid it to come across as a cheap personality. Rather you must choose light-hearted witty humor which is subconsciously a better turn on!

# 8 Flirting Warning
Don’t be too touchy feely right from the beginning
We are all human beings and we all want to do it! There’s no doubt about it! You have to be able to understand the intensity and mood of the moment before you make any physical advance. Guys acting too desperate get tagged as jerks and girls come across as sluts. So, be wise and stay alert!

# 9 Flirting Warning
Be aware of all consequences before getting intimate
This does not need much explanation. Just that you must hold back and not get carried away… Sometimes you are flirting just casually for fun and you have a spouse back at home. At times you just meet someone really attractive, but is completely unknown to you – what about possible STDs? These are just few consequences – you must measure the ones relevant to you at that moment.

# 10 Flirting Warning
Don’t fall in Love on day one!
Firstly, if you confess your love on day one, you will seem really needy. Let the sparks flow and let both of you feel it, don’t start pouring your heart out completely. It gives the other person an upper hand and a chance to exploit you too. Secondly, it is unwise because you barely know the person. Attraction does not equal love; love is way deeper than just mere flirting. So keep hunting and keep exploring till you are convinced you have fallen in love with the right person!

Congratulations for having successfully finished your Crash Course in Flirting! Cheers! You may leave back your experiences in the comments section. We would love to hear from you about your flirting adventures... Happy hunting!



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How to Flirt with a Girl

Posted by Unknown at 12:43 PM
E-Guide by: Melinda Cox
Place: Miami, USA

If you have read through the entire guide and reached this page finally, you can be sure that you are definitely way better at flirting than the average guys out there. You know what signs girls will give away while expressing interest in you, how to respond to those signs and also the signs that you show as a guy while flirting.

Now just follow these tips below to finally sweep her off her feet completely!

# 1 Tip for Flirting
Dress well, smell good & be hygienic
A well dressed guy indicates he has a sense of responsibility. A guy who smells great becomes irresistible to the girl even before he speaks to her! Therefore, it is extremely essential that
• You dress well for the occasion and the place
• You smell great to attract her before you speak
• You take care of your oral hygiene and your hair so that you don’t turn her off
Unhygienic dirty smelling men reach nowhere in life when it comes to charming women! If he can’t take care of himself, then he barely can take care of her!

# 2 Tip for Flirting
Start a conversation! It is not “Ladies First” this time! Show some confidence!
No girl usually appreciates making the first move. You need to show that you are composed and in control of the situation. After the eye contact game (hyperlink), just walk up to her. Smile and just ask her an open ended question that would make her answer you more than just a single yes/no. The question could be about the place around you or about the weather or maybe your place of work or school. Girls can easily make out if a guy is anxious or lacks confidence. Feeling good about yourself when you talk, walking tall & upright and smiling as you talk will ooze confidence in you!

# 3 Tip for Flirting
Steer the conversation and be a story-teller
It is your responsibility as a guy to ensure that as you both speak, there is no lull and the conversation is really lit up! This generally takes some practice, but it is easy. Start with asking her something about the current setting that you are in, graduate slowly to her experience or her relation with that situation (an event/ your workplace/ bookstore/ class, etc.) Then offshoot the conversation to something else that would make her speak about herself. Follow it up by disclosing something more about yourself than what she discloses. Speak about the most interesting things you’ve done and tell it like a story. If your stories are fun and adventurous, she will already start fancying the man she is talking to.

# 4 Tip for Flirting
Listen to her speak, look at her adorably and gaze into her eyes
Throw in a question that will make her elaborate something fun or close to her. Then, irrespective of whatever is going on around you, just gaze at her and listen to her speak. Make her feel important by not getting distracted even if someone is yelling or a hottie waitress is walking past you! Bring up things that she mentioned earlier in the conversation so that she feels that you aren’t just staring at her, but you are listening carefully as well. Any girl would love it if a guy is interested in her opinions and stories belonging to her little life!

# 5 Tip for Flirting
Have a positive body language
A relaxed body language tells the girl that you aren’t desperate and needy. Smiling and nodding your head as you look at her makes her feel comfortable too. Avoid touching your face or folding your hands as they show you are insecure. You may lounge back, tilt your head to one side and run your fingers through your hair to show you are really calm and relaxed.

# 6 Tip for Flirting
Break the barrier of touch
When you feel the chemistry is building up, you may lean in and after 3-5 minutes, gently pat her back/arm or playfully box her. Whilst walking in a crowd or crossing the road, either slightly hold her hand or guide her touching her lower back. You may give her your hand while getting out of the car or while walking on a rocky street. Make sure that your touch hints romantic intentions and not lustful desires! Avoid if needed!

# 7 Tip for Flirting
Kick in some wit & humor
You can show off a little being witty in your conversation. Just don’t overdo it, keep it down to just twice in a conversation. Use humor every ten minutes at least to relieve awkwardness and to indicate that you are a fun-loving personality. Playfully tease her, but don’t insult her. Ensure a good balance so that neither do you get tagged as her clown buddy, nor a pest that irritates her with his boring talks. This way she will love being in your company much beyond the friends’ zone.

# 8 Tip for Flirting
Give her an offbeat compliment
A genuine compliment always makes the girl feel that you adore her. A flattering compliment is a waste of time and makes you appear desperate. But if she is wearing something pretty and you tell her that she is looking great, it won’t really do much than just making her smile and her feeling good about herself for that moment. Instead telling her something like she really has a great dressing sense and that her hair looks so perfectly beautiful will completely just melt her! Put in some effort to notice something nice and offbeat and then elaborate on it. She will start falling in love…

# 9 Tip for Flirting
Modulate the tone and pitch of your voice
Learn to modulate your tone and pitch when you speak to her. Humor is usually loud and personal talk is best when it is slow and deep. The rest of your talk should just be in normal tone and pitch… else it seems like an audition that you are in for! Hitting the right notes at the right moments will steam up the chemistry between both of you!

# Most Important Tip for Flirting
Get back in touch
If you feel you’ve had a good brief session of flirting, chances are you would want to meet her yet again. Go ahead and ask her for her phone number! Or maybe just say that you really had a great time and you would like to meet her again. And if you feel it is necessary to be a gentleman at that moment, just leave back your phone number with her and ask her to call you back sometime. If she has a thing for you, she will surely call you back. Else there are a ton of other girls out there to flirt with! Just don’t stay there for too long and make a quick exit… this keeps the excitement alive in his mind!

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