Advice by: Serena Powell
Place: Bradford, UK
The most reasonable approach in attracting men and keeping them glued to you is simply one thing: Knowing what are the desirable traits in women which men want. It can all start with a flash of some attraction and some passion, but beyond that there are some secrets that make a woman desirable.
1. A Woman's Smile & Warmth
Whenever a man visualizes a woman that he is attracted to, it is her smile that he pictures in his mind. A sweet friendly smile conveys to him that you are pleasant and you can offer warmth in the relationship. His perception of his girl begins from here, so it is essential that you smile pleasantly in his presence.
2. A Woman's Sense of Humor
Men desire to be with a woman who can laugh with them because humor can work wonders.
Fundamentally, it keeps couples happy; it turns awkward situations into relaxed ones and mellows down heated arguments. What more, it even serves as a turn on for men to see their girl giggle. What’s important as a girlfriend/wife is not the ability to crack jokes every moment, but being able to understand humor and laugh openly.
3. A Woman's Feminine Nature
A feminine woman is someone who displays a caring a nature and a kind heart. Delicate, gentle and soft women come across to a man’s primal mind as a mate who can take care and nurture his offspring. Being aggressive is “not sexy” the way movies portray it. Else, if men found aggression sexy, they would probably be hitting on other men.
4. A Woman's Healthy Physical State
You don’t necessary need to be a supermodel, though it would be great if you are one. The male mind is trained to get attracted to a woman shorter than him and whose body structure is relatively smaller than his own. Being too thin indicates malnourishment and being overweight pertains to lack of fitness. Both these can completely turn him off. As a woman you should try to maintain a healthy physical state because it indirectly also implies a good mental state.
5. A Woman's Down to Earth Nature
Men have a growing dislike for women who argue repeatedly and have an inflated ego. By evolution, man is supposed to be the stronger sex of our species and when you tend to overturn this fact, "naturally" things go wrong. You are entitled to have an opinion and have it respected
in your relationship. However, you should let him take the lead as much as possible. Guys also dislike females who are extremely materialistic because they see them as high-maintenance and mentally attribute such women as unreachable for them. Mind your limits especially when you are making first impressions.
6. A Woman's Appearance
It is extremely essential that you portray yourself as confident, elegant and stylish. The way a woman carries herself, the way she walks and the way she exhibits her mannerisms decides how men respect her. You should dress up in only those clothes which accentuate the best parts of your body. Also basic hygiene with your teeth, nails and hair should be taken care of regularly.
7. A Woman's Trust Value
A man can feel truly close to his woman when he knows he can share his emotions with her and connect on a more personal level. Trust grows alongside the relationship bond when you give him a chance to open up and speak about his feelings and views. Being responsive and supportive to his ups and downs can take you two a long way. Remember that a man shares something with you because he "trusts" you. It would blow him off if he realized you leaked his secrets to your friends.
8. A Woman's Fidelity
Nobody wants an infidel partner obviously. But, fidelity can’t be shown directly to someone you are attracted to. Subtle little actions can seed within him the feeling that you won’t cheat on him. When on a date with him, make sure your attention doesn’t move to another guy around you. Telling him things like how he is the best guy you could have because he did something for you make him feel you value him.
9. A Woman's Sexual Ability
Firstly, be open to the fact that women want sex as much as men do. Great sex can imply a fun-loving, lively and adventurous partner. But how do you prove that to him unless you have started out with a one night stand! Well, subtly touching his body, calling him by his name repeatedly in a seductive tone, winking at him when you two laugh at a joke and letting him hold you by your waist whenever the opportunity arises can all imply your playful nature in bed.
Don’t try to ace every single desirable trait in women that men want. However, try to be honest and rate yourself in each of these characteristics. Then just consciously improve where you lack. But remember, the key is:
"A woman with a balanced combination of these traits can have guys fall for her over and over again."
The most reasonable approach in attracting men and keeping them glued to you is simply one thing: Knowing what are the desirable traits in women which men want. It can all start with a flash of some attraction and some passion, but beyond that there are some secrets that make a woman desirable.
1. A Woman's Smile & Warmth
Whenever a man visualizes a woman that he is attracted to, it is her smile that he pictures in his mind. A sweet friendly smile conveys to him that you are pleasant and you can offer warmth in the relationship. His perception of his girl begins from here, so it is essential that you smile pleasantly in his presence.
2. A Woman's Sense of Humor
Men desire to be with a woman who can laugh with them because humor can work wonders.
Fundamentally, it keeps couples happy; it turns awkward situations into relaxed ones and mellows down heated arguments. What more, it even serves as a turn on for men to see their girl giggle. What’s important as a girlfriend/wife is not the ability to crack jokes every moment, but being able to understand humor and laugh openly.3. A Woman's Feminine Nature
A feminine woman is someone who displays a caring a nature and a kind heart. Delicate, gentle and soft women come across to a man’s primal mind as a mate who can take care and nurture his offspring. Being aggressive is “not sexy” the way movies portray it. Else, if men found aggression sexy, they would probably be hitting on other men.
4. A Woman's Healthy Physical State
You don’t necessary need to be a supermodel, though it would be great if you are one. The male mind is trained to get attracted to a woman shorter than him and whose body structure is relatively smaller than his own. Being too thin indicates malnourishment and being overweight pertains to lack of fitness. Both these can completely turn him off. As a woman you should try to maintain a healthy physical state because it indirectly also implies a good mental state.
5. A Woman's Down to Earth Nature
Men have a growing dislike for women who argue repeatedly and have an inflated ego. By evolution, man is supposed to be the stronger sex of our species and when you tend to overturn this fact, "naturally" things go wrong. You are entitled to have an opinion and have it respected
in your relationship. However, you should let him take the lead as much as possible. Guys also dislike females who are extremely materialistic because they see them as high-maintenance and mentally attribute such women as unreachable for them. Mind your limits especially when you are making first impressions.6. A Woman's Appearance
It is extremely essential that you portray yourself as confident, elegant and stylish. The way a woman carries herself, the way she walks and the way she exhibits her mannerisms decides how men respect her. You should dress up in only those clothes which accentuate the best parts of your body. Also basic hygiene with your teeth, nails and hair should be taken care of regularly.
7. A Woman's Trust Value
A man can feel truly close to his woman when he knows he can share his emotions with her and connect on a more personal level. Trust grows alongside the relationship bond when you give him a chance to open up and speak about his feelings and views. Being responsive and supportive to his ups and downs can take you two a long way. Remember that a man shares something with you because he "trusts" you. It would blow him off if he realized you leaked his secrets to your friends.
8. A Woman's FidelityNobody wants an infidel partner obviously. But, fidelity can’t be shown directly to someone you are attracted to. Subtle little actions can seed within him the feeling that you won’t cheat on him. When on a date with him, make sure your attention doesn’t move to another guy around you. Telling him things like how he is the best guy you could have because he did something for you make him feel you value him.
9. A Woman's Sexual Ability
Firstly, be open to the fact that women want sex as much as men do. Great sex can imply a fun-loving, lively and adventurous partner. But how do you prove that to him unless you have started out with a one night stand! Well, subtly touching his body, calling him by his name repeatedly in a seductive tone, winking at him when you two laugh at a joke and letting him hold you by your waist whenever the opportunity arises can all imply your playful nature in bed.
Don’t try to ace every single desirable trait in women that men want. However, try to be honest and rate yourself in each of these characteristics. Then just consciously improve where you lack. But remember, the key is:
"A woman with a balanced combination of these traits can have guys fall for her over and over again."
