Wife School; Stop The Boredom In Your Marriage!

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Good morning, angel! I really do believe that it's the UNIMAGINATIVE woman who's responsible for the boredom in her marriage. As for boredom in marriage, it can assume a hundred different forms. 
A wife can be BORING in her cooking, her clothes, her desires and interests, her conversations, her hair, the choice of her perfumes, and boring in the bedroom - in

Strategies For Convincing A Spouse To Save A Marriage

Strategies For Convincing A Spouse To Save A Marriage 

When you’re partner seems minutes away from packing their bags or you’re living separately already convincing a spouse to save a marriage can seem next to impossible. If you take a step back from the situation, though, you can see that there are realistic options for changing the mind of a spouse who’s about to walk out. Here are some strategies that may just get your partner to come around.

Fake it ’til you make it’

It’s a common strategy for business and other areas of social like, but acting ‘as if’ can work for marriages, too. It works so well because how we act has a major influence both on how we feel and on how others see us.

For a while, try forgetting that you have anything but a perfectly blissful marriage and treat your spouse accordingly. Now, that’s not going to be so easy if your partner’s still bitter and liable to pick a fight. Still, you can take advantage of those times when things are going well to try to see your spouse as the person you were deeply in love with when you decided to get married.

Be reasonable

Whether you want your spouse to join you in marriage counseling or just try out a few tips you picked up from a book, you’ll have more success in winning them over if you don’t push. Threats, guilt trips, and begging are more likely to push your partner away than give you any success convincing him to save a marriage. Instead, use a calm logical approach that taps into the underlying regard you spouse most likely still has for you or at least for the children.

Statements like ‘With everything we’ve invested in each other, don’t you think it’s worth a try to save it?’ or ‘Wouldn’t you rather be able to tell the kids we tried everything?’ can help.

Address the problems

When convincing a spouse to save a marriage, promises to change ring pretty hollow unless you can back them up. If you expect your husband to believe you’re not going to repeat certain mistakes in the future, give them a real reason. This is especially important if you’ve had an affair or you’re struggling with an addiction.

For instance, if you’ve started counseling to resolve an addiction that you’ve never dealt with before, your partner has a reason to believe things will get better.

Take care of yourself

The stress and low mood, marital problems naturally bring about, can leave you feeling like you just don’t want to do anything. For your own sake, though, don’t give in to that feeling or you’ll only make yourself feel worse and drive your spouse farther away.

Make sure you’re eating right, getting enough sleep, and not cutting corners on personal grooming. Stay on top of your responsibilities like finances and home maintenance.

Convincing a spouse to save a marriage isn’t always easy, but it can be done. The most important thing you need to do is stay calm, stay upbeat, and actively look for solutions to the problems between you.

If you need more advice on convincing your spouse to save a marriage, most marriage counselors and professionally written self-help ebooks online can give you some tips.   

How To Enter High Society; The Truth About Social Climbing

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Good afternoon, my feminine lovely! Many of you who aspiring to turn yourselves into high value/high status ladies - in order to reach your FULLEST potential in life, live well, and marry high value/high status men - have written to me asking for advice. 
Furthermore, in the last couple of months I've had more than a few aspiring social climbers/socialites

The 'Mysterious Seductress' Seductive Archetype/Archetypal Woman

©2008-2013 The Seductive Woman™

Good afternoon, my darling dove! The 'Mysterious Seductress' is a seductive archetype/archetypal woman who not only has an appearance that AWES and fascinates a man (such as Dita Von Teese,) but she has a rather specialized and exotic temperament. 
The mysterious seductress is an extremely feminine and seductive woman, but with reservations - and a mysterious

Emotional Needs Of Men; Men's Emotional Needs - Part II

©2008-2013 The Seductive Woman™

Hello, my feminine lovely! In our modern society, it takes a lot of courage, a lot of willingness, a lot of honesty, and most importantly, a lot of SPIRIT to be able to put aside one's own emotional needs for the benefit of others. 
From the very earliest years of our lives, many of us have been taught that status, prestige, and aggressiveness are most

Feminine Power, Feminine Energy, Feminine Radiance

©2008-2013 The Seductive Woman™

Good afternoon my darling dove! A man may have an advantage over a woman when it comes to PHYSICAL strength/power, and in some intellectual faculties. But there are intellectual faculties where the superiority belongs to a woman. 


For example, a woman's powers of reasoning and invention may not always be equal to those of men, but her intuitive processes and

Dear Melina; Being Used By A Man

Dear Melina,

I'm feeling troubled, disillusioned and disgusted right now. I'm a 40 yr old divorcee who now lives in my parent's home taking care of my aged father and mother with alimony paid by my ex-husband. 

Since my mother is hardly able to walk and can't do very much, it is my job to do cooking and general housework. I shop weekly and plan meals, and generally run the home which entails

Emotional Needs Of Men; Men's Emotional Needs - Part I

©2008-2013 The Seductive Woman™

Good afternoon, angel! Being the sweetest, kindest, gentlest and most feminine woman is no assurance that a man is going to fall in love with you. Being the most beautiful, glamorous, elegant, and mysterious woman is likewise no assurance. 
Furthermore, being the most intelligent, charming, wittiest, and the most brilliant conversationalist won't do it. A man