21 Most Romantic Places to Kiss -3

Posted by Unknown at 2:06 PM
Advice by: Cristina
Place: Launceston, Australia

A kiss planted at the right moment and at the right place can ignite an amazing passion between two individuals. Choosing the right place and the right moment can multiply your romance by a million and draw your sweetheart closer to you than just kissing behind closed doors… So lean in and find out the most romantic places to kiss that special someone!

This is part 3/3. If you missed the earlier parts, you can find them below:

17. Standing on a Bridge
The guy leaning over the girl standing against the railings of the bridge. Her hands wrapped around his neck and his hands holding her waist. Soft sweet kisses…

18. Cuddling up in a hammock or on an outdoor daybed
The little space to fit yourselves heightens your senses beyond kissing as the sun goes down behind you. What do you think you are gonna do next?

19. At a bar playing jazz music
Find yourself a romantic corner. Allow the music, the drinks and your naughty thoughts to take over you. The night’s then gonna be a good night, isn’t it?

20. At a secluded area of a park
Get yourself a bench or maybe just the shade of a tree. Feel the romantic moment as you smile and kiss and kiss and smile.

21. In the midst of a busy nightlife street
Kiss in the midst of all the action going on around you. Kiss for long. Act as if you don’t care what the world is up to around you!

Aren’t you so waiting to kiss your sweetheart right at this moment? These are so definitely the most romantic places to kiss and I am sure you do agree! Hope to hear your experiences about your most romantic kisses in the comments below...


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15 Best Places for a First Kiss

Posted by Unknown at 2:01 PM
Advice by: Cristina
Place: Launceston, Australia

What are the Best Places for a First Kiss?
This article is for you if you fall in one of the categories below...
a. You are in your teens and you are going to kiss someone for the first time in your life ever.
b. You have been seeing somebody and you are looking forward to kissing that person for the first time in your relationship.

In either case, every first kiss has the potential to leave back an impression of yourself that your partner carries back home with them. If done well, it speaks volumes about you than just a “good kisser” image. Done badly, you probably might even lose the attraction your sweetie has towards you.

So, to ensure that you do come across as a good kisser, you need to first be calm, composed and comfortable with the surroundings around you. Generally crowded places with too many on-lookers can make you conscious and ultimately turn you into a not-that-great-a-kisser even if you are an awesome kisser!

It is wise to play a safe bet since your first kiss sets the tone of the physical compatibility between you two. A place that is either private or not too crowded is generally a good option. Here are a few suggestions below...

Best Places for a First Kiss
-- Next to a fountain in a garden

-- At a party with dim lights when you both are dancing

-- On the dance floor at a night club

-- After a romantic dinner in the parking lot or at the doorstep of the girl’s house

-- During a sunset walk on a beach

-- On a deck by the lake

-- In the woods

-- In the midst of a nature trail

-- During a movie or a game whilst the audience is lost in the entertainment

-- Late after class hours around the corner in the hallway

-- By a camp fire

-- In the giant wheel at a fair

-- At a deserted stage in a theater after a play

-- If it is raining or snowing, then anywhere outdoors

-- In the balcony of your house or the terrace of your building under the night sky

Just control your hormones to not turn your first kiss into a make out session. Keep that for later. In fact, restricting yourself after your first kiss will absolutely turn on the heat for the next time.

Leave back some comments about your first kiss or post suggestions to add to the Best Places for a First Kiss.


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21 Most Romantic Places to Kiss -2

Posted by Unknown at 1:52 PM
Advice by: Cristina
Place: Launceston, Australia

A kiss planted at the right moment and at the right place can ignite an amazing passion between two individuals. Choosing the right place and the right moment can multiply your romance by a million and draw your sweetheart closer to you than just kissing behind closed doors… So lean in and find out the most romantic places to kiss that special someone!

This is part 2/3. If you missed the other parts, you can find them below:

9. By a Bonfire
Your bodies warm up and the scene doesn’t get steamier than this… Try to remember the warmth you felt next to a bonfire last time and imagine being there with your sweetie.

10. In a cafe by the lake or river
The café is filled with people, yet you are so lost by the mesmerizing company of your lover and kiss as if nobody exists. Try that sometime, don’t get conscious …

11. In a glass elevator
The backdrop of a beautiful city with the shining sun or the evening lights makes you feel like rising high into the clouds! Can you picture that?

12. In the backseat of a car
This can sure lead to much more than just kissing passionately. It depends on how adventurous you can get! If you get a chance next time, be careful, but do unleash your fantasies!

13. On a roller coaster ride or a giant wheel
The height, the speed, the curves, going in circles, clinging onto each other, the weightless feeling… And a kiss to still say “I love you!”

14. During a forest trail or in the woods
Perfect for getting as naughty as you can! Let those ideas come in…

15. On the porch under at a starry sky
Cuddle up in a nice rocking chair under a blanket and make out. Aren’t you really loving this? I am quite sure you are gonna pounce on him/her after reading this, right?

16. In a cable car
Hanging in mid air with the world below you as the cable car wobbles… Just make sure you don’t move too much!!

Next-->... 21 Most Romantic Places to Kiss (Part 3/3) continued here -->

Aren’t you so waiting to kiss your sweetheart right at this moment? These are so definitely the most romantic places to kiss and I am sure you do agree! Hope to hear your experiences about your most romantic kisses in the comments below…

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How to be a Good Kisser - 2

Posted by Unknown at 12:44 PM
Advice by: Cristina
Place: Launceston, Australia

... continued from here

6. Continuously Trying to Kiss Deep
Kissing is meant to be sensuous and exploratory. It should progress from a gentle peck to a more intense kiss that can be deep subsequently. Often this heats up the moment and makes kissing ever so irresistible. Just being too aggressive right from the beginning and thrusting your tongue down your partner’s mouth for sure adds you to the list of bad kissers!


7. Excessively Wet Kiss
Before you approach for the kiss, swallow the excess spit. Leaving your drool on your partner’s face is a scary thought! Do not act like a hungry dog with your wet desirous tongue hanging out waiting to make contact and then wanting to lick off your partner’s lips, chin and nose. Excessively wetting your partner’s face isn’t a turn on! Intermittent sensual licking up to the bottom lip after you have started kissing is fine.

8. Being Hesitant and Kissing Restrictively
When you go in for kiss, don’t hesitate. Being indecisive spoils the fun. If your partner holds back, act as if nothing happened and just carry on normally. Nothing will get affected if you don’t act embarrassed. But if your partner does respond to kiss you, then don’t kiss restrictively. Don’t keep your lips tightly pursed and your mouth barely open. This makes your partner feel they aren’t desirable. Kiss like you really mean it.

9. A Stiff Tongue
While kissing, your tongue is meant to move and swivel as though you are licking an ice cream. If you keep your tongue stiff and rigid, you restrict the soft and slow movements that are a major turn on. If you are the partner heeding to the other one’s desires, then respond to what your partner likes. If your partner is weaving their tongue slowly, then follow suit. Likewise, if your partner seems desperate and is jabbing a stiff tongue into your mouth, maybe then it’s a good idea to do the same.

10. Thanking Your Partner after the Kiss
"Thank You!" It is not the ideal thing to say by far! Nobody is doing a favour here by kissing. You are kissing because you both have hormones that tempt you to kiss the person you are attracted to. You are kissing because it is an expression of love. The best thing is to say "Wow! You were wonderful!"

Nobody can really teach you how to be a good kisser. There are no definite steps to becoming a good kisser simply because the chemistry between every couple is different. But if you can avoid these obvious mistakes, you will be miles far from ever being a bad kisser. And as you practice more, you will become the real irresistible kisser!

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Talk to Any Stranger Girl

Posted by Unknown at 11:40 AM
Advice by: Demario
Place: Long Beach, Washington, USA

How to Talk to A Stranger?
This article is for men who find it awkward to go up to women and make conversation. It takes you through a process that most successful men follow when they approach women. It makes you realize how easy it is if you just follow a few basic rules.

You walk in public by a random stranger girl who interests you and it catches your attention. You want to go speak to her. Like most men out there, you bother too much what you are gonna say and how she is gonna react. You wonder if you are gonna freak her out and if she will consider you to be a jerk.

Stop! All that just drowned your confidence and your prospects with the girl even before you started doing anything. Worse is that by the time you gather courage to speak to her, she'll take off and you miss an opportunity. You need to act quickly as soon as you see a girl that interests you. Go right up to her and start a conversation.

All right, so how do you approach?
The key here is that you have to keep it casual. Don't make her think you are "actually" approaching her. Walk up to her confidently with a relaxed body language and in a clear, resonating yet casual tone, pop up your question.

So what's your question gonna be like?
Look around at the surroundings or understand the situation/theme of the place and pick a question. The key here is that you have to ask an open-ended question. If you ask her a yes/no question, it ends right there! So when you walk up to her and she looks at you expecting you to say something interesting, drop it down and make it simple.

--If you are walking down a street:
"Do you know where the smoothie place is? I'm in the mood for a smoothie."


--If you are at a coffee shop:
"Whoa! That’s a really neat mug. What do you think about it?"


--If you are at a bookstore:
"That's a really great book I've heard? Are you just curious or are you actually from the domain?"


--If you are at a clothing/footwear store:
"Hey I am trying to find something for my female friend for her birthday, but I am really bad at it. Do you think you can help me choose?"


Carrying it forward...
Bring in some routine or some stories. But choose your topic sensibly to keep the conversation interesting. Nobody wants to hear where you work and what's your specialization at the first go. Let her do as much talking as she can. Now you don't want the interest to fall. So, as she starts to get done with her words, stack up interesting events from your life and roll them out starting with the most interesting. She'll exclaim, she'll laugh and she'll open up.

That's it. The conversation will keep going. Here was the key: You always made sure that she was reacting more than you were reacting. It seemed as if she was opening up and you were letting her speak.

When you first started speaking to her, you were casual in your approach. No preformed thoughts, no inhibitions! You didn't care what she would think of you!

You need to do this more often with a mindset that you are going through a normal day. That day you see someone interesting and she wants to open up to you, how cool! Else your day continues like any other normal day.

The mistake that guys make is they try pick-up lines, they try too hard to make her laugh or sometimes even ask really weird questions. These things don't work in the real world when you are talking to a stranger for the first time.


The casual laid back approach ...
It sets you at a higher value than her. It causes an attraction as you keep the ball rolling. In every conversation, the person who reacts less and is more relaxed turns out to be more dominant or alpha. The other person trying to react more is the one who's more attracted. This makes a girl struggle to make small talk and keep the conversation going as long as you set your value higher than hers.

Always remain more relaxed than her. Do not react too much to what she says, just keep it casual and smile and show that you are listening. As long as you remain a challenge for her, she will remain attracted and try to flaunt the best of her to you. Keeping the alpha status and staying in control right from the beginning will ensure you remain a challenge.

This basically is the entire gist of "How to Talk to A Stranger"! Try this out with a few girls out there and each time you'll get better than before. Don't panic, don't react, don't worry about what she thinks! Just speak up!


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Letter to my Girlfriend's Lover

Posted by Unknown at 2:00 PM
Letters by: Monika
Place: Munich, Germany

My girlfriend Andrea moved to Paris for work. She found her new lover there, Karolin. Andrea felt pathetic all this while having cheated on me. Below are the letters I wrote to her new found love, Karolin and what Karolin replied to me.


From: Me, Monika
To: Karolin

Dear Karolin,
Let me first say that I am here just to make things better for not just Andrea, but for you too. This mail is for you, not her. So if you wish to, you can keep it between us or share it with her if you wanna.

Karolin, for a moment I want you not to think that its the same Monika you know who is writing this email. Just think of me as any other friend of yours.

Lets try to rewind back for a moment and understand whats happened. You might think that "I have lived all this drama & this girl wants to rewind my life!" Well, still, lets just do it.

It probably was the Jan of 2009 when Andrea & you met at an alien place far away from home & your loved ones. You both probably also met at a time when you both were at an emotional low. At such a time, when you found the other person was such a beautiful human being more than anyone else, you could hardly resist, but get close to that person. You two found great company in each other.

You started to spend time together & loved the warmth that you shared. You could hardly even stay a single day without hearing each others voices or even seeing each other for at least once! Bring back all those memories...

Andrea tells me, "Monika, Paris was never so beautiful the way it has seemed to me in the past one month or so. Being with Karolin, I have started to get over all loneliness and I love the place. Her company is what makes me so happy here..." I could hardly believe for a moment that its the same girl saying all this who used to hate Paris a few months back.

Karolin, lets be honest to ourselves here and lets not confuse ourselves what has happened. For starts, it was an emotional attachment which later became an infatuation. Infatuations though don't last for so long. Infatuations don't make us cry, miss or hurt our hearts so badly. Infatuations don't make living life difficult without the other person. Once again, please lets be honest and accept that you both go beyond attachment & attraction...

So now whatever has happened in the past month, leave it aside. Don't break your head & heart over it. You have both messed up your peace of mind doing that and analyzing & fighting over all of it. I even know you are having a tough time with Marcel. (Marcel is Karolin's boyfriend. She was straight until she met Andrea.)

Karolin, you need to ask yourself if you have the heart that feels for her and wants her or it doesn't. In either cases, you gotta be strong. Accept her with love & not compulsion if you wish to, else let her be on her own and make or mess her life on her terms.

You know it Karolin, at the end of such an intense period of love, its hard to just call that person just "someone I know", hard to not look at that person with the same feelings, hard to not feel the person with your hands.

So my girl, decide what it is that you really want! If you don't want love, let her by herself even if she isn't okay today or even if you aren't okay today. I don't know much about how life is treating you, but I'm sure Andrea wont be able to come out of the grief and pain again. I've spoken to her these days, she is okay for a brief moment, but after sometime when I talk to her, she loses her mind and goes nuts again.

But if you wish to get together with her with all love & commitment, I am sure your lives will be beautiful again!

You girls don't need to worry about me if at all you ever think what I am feeling. I am not sad, I just feel bad to see you this way; love, still no love!

And sweetie, you surely can talk to me anytime you want to. Please don't feel uncomfortable about it. I don't have any hard feelings against you and I mean it. If you girls ever get together, I'll throw a party.

Write back to me sometime, if you wanna that is.

Take care girl,
Monika

PS: You are in Paris for the love of fashion, for your career. You have worked hard for it. So please don't compromise on it ever, else you will regret why you ever met Andrea.



From: Karolin
To: Me, Monika

Hey Monika,
Well I understand what you are going through.You are perfectly okay in your position. The last one month was happiness without doubt. I was bereft because I was having a hard time with Marcel. Andrea supported me emotionally. And when a person cares for you so much, its natural you will give back love to that person. That's what has happened in the last few weeks. I really don't know why I went blank about Marcel. But I wonder why Andrea got carried away.

Its now that I have realized, what I want. I am pretty firm with my decision. I want to be "Single". I want no relationships. I can't handle them. I can understand Andrea's state of mind. Seems she is longing a lot for me.

She is psychologically affected and wastes her time thinking about it. Its hard ignoring her too. I want her to focus on her job.

Monika, only you can handle her state of mind. I still don't understand her. I wanna be a good friend of hers.

Its just that when you are not around she keeps thinking about herself and me. So if you can be in touch with her regularly for a few days at least that would be great. I am sure she will come out of this and focus on you, her future and job.

Love,
Karolin

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How to Handle Stress

Posted by Unknown at 2:40 PM
Advice by: Catherine
Place: Toronto, Canada

Somebody just narrated a simple story to me today. Thanks to that "somebody". Its definitely something worth reflecting over what the story speaks.

A college class was waiting for their Biology session. The class saw the Professor enter with a glass of water. The Professor raised the glass he held and asked the class what they could see.

Prof: Well, girls & boys, what do you think is the weight of the glass?
(The class broke its silence and they yelled out their frustrations after the long wait for the Professor)

Class:500 gms!... No its a 100 gms! 325 gms!

Prof: (He smiled at them as they calmed down and curiously waited to hear what the Professor wanted to Preach that day ...) Well, honestly, even I don't know unless I weigh it myself. But my question is: What would happen if this glass is held up in my hands for a couple of minutes?

Class: Nothing! (They shouted in unison... but still curious)

Prof: Hmm... What if the couple of minutes became an hour?


Some Student: Your arm would probably start trembling with pain.

Prof: And if the hour became a day?

(The curiosity in the class grew at what the Professor was getting at...)
Some Student: You would go numb!(The class burst into laughter)

Prof: Smart...(he smiled yet again) But the glass still weighs the same! Doesn't it?

Class: Yeah!

Prof: Then why am i gonna be numb? (The class remained puzzled waiting to hear his answer. They mumbled among themselves...)

Prof: All right! What do I do to come out of this pain?

Some Student: Put it down Mr. Professor!

Prof: Bingo!
That's exactly what I was getting at. We have a zillion troubles in life. When they occur, they automatically just shoot right to our brain. You can't do much about that. And that is okay too for those few moments for the mind to handle them.

But, when we ponder over them and keep them there for a long time, we start to feel "stressed". Now, keeping them with you even longer only paralyzes your life completely. You are barely able to concentrate on the worthwhile things in life, things you can do that would keep you joyful. Ignoring your problems or running away is not the solution to those problems really. You need to face it and you need to mend things.

But for you to sort your life out and live joyfully, you need to be in the right state of mind. You need to put those problems down for some time. Enjoy your life. Get a great sleep without thinking about them. It only wakes you up stronger the next day with even greater energy and brighter mind to tackle all the stress.

That was a real beautiful story. It forced me to think how we escalate all stress & trouble all the time by letting it dwell on our minds. At least give it a shot the Glassy Professor Way. There is nothing to lose, right?

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Get Over A Break Up

Posted by Unknown at 2:31 PM
Advice by: Azzan
Place: Tel Aviv, Israel

It is not as difficult to "Get over A Break Up" as we actually make it ourselves. Well, I just know people who went through this and what some of them did or realized in life that helped them get out of it. I just felt that I should put that down here so that it helps you come out of the grief.


Remember
"More often than usual, it takes not one, but two people to bring down love...It wasn't just you!"


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1. Believe this Fact, trust me its true
"In almost 100% relationships, there always will be at least one extremely intense clash of emotions, desires or words which will bring the relationship to the brink of a break-up. And sometimes these clashes are so bad that its just not worth mending anything again."

Tip: Don't keep lingering around the break-up...
Love yourself & have some self-respect, please!


2. Ask yourself
" Why should he/she be responsible for your happiness & your peace of mind ??? "
I am so dead sure that you compromised on quite a few things earlier. Go ahead & take the step to do those things... Whether you have to be alone or with anyone else, just go ahead do it! You compromised earlier when you were nurturing the relationship, but now is your chance to treat yourself to some fun...
You are "entitled to have fun", isn't it?

Tip: Don't be so harsh with yourself!


3. Moving On...
" Why can't I get him/her off my mind ??? "
You've loved the person so damn much... Are you nuts that you are gonna get him/her off your mind in a flash? Obviously Not! But well, you gotta work towards it... Its tough, believe me... Very Tough, But Possible! Tell your mind you gotta be strong & follow this:
Delete
all his/her contacts including phone nos, email ids, messenger ids...everything.
Pack away
all the memories such as gifts, photographs, momentos, etc. of your ex and dump them somewhere.
Vent it out
When you really feel angry or you have a heavy flow of emotions, just pen it all down on paper, read it, preserve it! You won't write better essays than this ever, believe me.

Tip: When you get disturbed about what your ex must be going through, go play with some pet(animal) or kids or cultivate a plant or nurture anything with love.


4. Exercise
On a more serious note now, listen up here! If you do any form of physical exercise, it really helps to release stress & sadness... What more, you look & feel so much better!! I mean just go for a walk or jog somewhere, pump some iron,dance or just jump about... Just tire yourself completely to burn those calories & those memories!

Tip: Don't be a couch potato, you'll only keep dreaming or
hating life or analyzing something useless!


5. Now Talk to Someone
Once you have slowly started to recover, speak about it to someone. Share the burden of this horrible time with someone close. But don't you dare glorify your sweet times with your ex. Tell your friend/relative what troubled you & what went wrong. In the end, tell them that you are finding it hard, but you are trying to seek your way out.

Tip: The end of a disaster is the beginning of rebuilding...a new lease of life!
Be Positive!


Everyone who kept asking me "How to Get Over A Break Up" actually came and thanked me when they actually felt the difference in their lives. Take care and I hope you get over your break up soon!

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